It's been 2 weeks since we found out we were chosen.
We're dying to know how things are going with the bfather- but the phone remains silent.
I am "thinking" this is a good sign. If he was not cooperating, I would "think" we would of been informed of the risks. Unless, they are having trouble finding him or getting a reply? Something tells me it's the later of the two.
Happy 19th Birthday, Owen
7 months ago
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Well, I always say that "no good news is good news". Hopefully that is true in your situation!
How long do they have to try and find him? If they don't find him then the judge will terminate his rights, correct? That is what they did with M's bfather. They couldn't find him (didn't even know where to look) so they gave it 1 month and then the judge terminated him. They also put his info (what little they had) in the journal of records downtown and that had to sit for the 1 month that I was talking about.
I can't believe 2 weeks has past. I know it seems like forever to you, but hopefully you will hear GOOD NEWS soon!!!
Love~ Robin
I'm hoping you'll hear good news soon, too!
Are you banned from calling them to inquire what's going on? Seems to me that they opened the door to exchange information with you when they gave you the information that you had been chosen, etc., and then went further to tell you about tracking down the birthfather. ?? Not sure how the ins and outs of your agency work. Me, I'm the "squeaky wheel" type, so it would be tough for me to wait without calling and bugging them. You are to be commended for your self control! *grin*
Continuing to pray for you, friend. Hoping the best!
Love,
Min
I found your blog through another. Congratulations on being matched and I pray that you will hear good news soon!
May God be with you and BT!
Hey Pep, I had the link wrong in my blog. It is www.adoptiontalk.lifeme.net. It should work now. A lady that lives in MS started it a few months ago. I just joined a few days ago. Anyway, she and her husband adopted a baby boy. It really seems like a great forum. Check it out!
: )Lisa
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