She returned my call.
Most of it is a blur.
The Director of the agency told her to tell me it is not looking good. They spoke to the attorney before calling me. Apparently, he spoke to the bfather several times (as did the agency) and he is not cooperating with the adoption plan AT ALL. It would take a miracle for things to turn around.
Although I wished I hadn't, I asked if she had the baby. She said "Patti, I was hoping you wouldnt ask that, she had the baby and it is in our care". That stung! How horrible! The baby is here- and we are ready and willing to bring it home. BUT, because he won't cooperate, the baby is in a TLC home. It's just not right!
What is going to happen to this precious baby? Since the baby is in the custody of our agency, I am assuming the mother signed at the hospital. But, she believes she may have to keep the baby, if he doesn't turn around.
So, we're waiting again -
I feel so let down - my whole world is tipped up-side down. BT is sad.
Giving up seems so much easier.
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8 months ago
8 comments:
I am so, so sorry. I am sad for you and BT. And for the baby.
Is Mom's signature irrevocable at this point? It's different in every state, seems like.
I'll be praying for everyone...again, I'm just so sorry to hear this.
Big Hugs to you!! I know it's so easy to say you want to give up but you have to hang in there. I wanted this to happen so badly for you because I knew what would happen to you if it didn't. I've been there and it's so hard and hurts sooooo bad but you can't give up. Everything you've been through would be for nothing if you give up. I've been thinking about you all day.
((((HUGS))))
I know you are hurting so badly right now. Hang in there, my friend! Miracles happen every day.
AHHH Pep! I am so, so sorry for you and yor husband. I will say TONS of prayers that the bfather has a change of heart...stubborn man! Huge hugs coming your way! Hang in there Pep!
: )Lisa
I am so sorry Pep!!! I can't imagine what you are felling. Just know that I am praying.
My dear friend, Pep... sometimes there just aren't words. I'm so very sorry. You and BT are in my prayers. (hug)
Min - Mandy - Dale - Lisa - Denise - Anita -
Thank you for being so sweet. It's been soooo hard. This is the first one to hit us both so deeply.
We appreciate your friendship and continued prayers! It will get better, right? :(
Hugs - Pep
I'm so sorry to hear this Pep. My heart sank when I read that the baby is born and is in the care of the agency. I will pray for you and your family and also for the welfare of the baby.
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